7.6
Viewer Rating
Combines user and critic ratings from four sources
Drama, Comedy, Romance • 2023 • 93 min • Adults (18+)
You Hurt My Feelings (2023)
You Hurt My Feelings (2023)
Overview
A novelist overhears her husband admit he doesn't actually love her new book. That's the inciting wound in Nicole Holofcener's 2023 comedy-drama, which then unpacks how much honesty a long marriage can realistically hold. Julia Louis-Dreyfus leads a cast working through the quiet anxieties of creative ego, professional doubt, and the gap between what couples say and what they mean. The Leans Traditional label fits because the film's emotional gravity pulls toward preserving and understanding a committed marriage rather than dismantling it. No strong political framing, no DEI-centered narrative. The concerns here are deeply personal and largely universal, rooted in the friction that comes with decades of shared life.
Starring Cast
Julia Louis-Dreyfus • Tobias Menzies • Michaela Watkins
Where to watch
Rating & Dimensions
Bias Rating
Analyzing...
Leans Traditional
Political: Center
Diversity: Low
Family Values: Mixed
Viewer Rating
7.6
Overview
A novelist overhears her husband admit he doesn't actually love her new book. That's the inciting wound in Nicole Holofcener's 2023 comedy-drama, which then unpacks how much honesty a long marriage can realistically hold. Julia Louis-Dreyfus leads a cast working through the quiet anxieties of creative ego, professional doubt, and the gap between what couples say and what they mean. The Leans Traditional label fits because the film's emotional gravity pulls toward preserving and understanding a committed marriage rather than dismantling it. No strong political framing, no DEI-centered narrative. The concerns here are deeply personal and largely universal, rooted in the friction that comes with decades of shared life.
Starring Cast
Julia Louis-Dreyfus • Tobias Menzies • Michaela Watkins
Where to watch
Detailed Bias Analysis
Analyzing...
Leans Traditional
Primary
Political: Center
Confidence: High
The film explores the intricate dynamics of a marriage challenged by a white lie, focusing on themes of self-esteem, honesty, and the complexities of interpersonal communication. Its narrative centers on universal human experiences and psychological struggles rather than promoting any specific political ideology.
Diversity: Low
Confidence: High
The film features a primarily traditional cast, with no explicit race or gender swaps of traditionally white roles. The narrative does not critically portray traditional identities, nor does it center on explicit DEI themes, maintaining a neutral or positive framing of traditional identities.
Secondary
Family Values: Mixed
Confidence: Medium
The film offers a nuanced and realistic portrayal of long-term marital and family relationships, exploring themes of honesty, self-esteem, and the complexities inherent in enduring bonds. It depicts family structures and roles without a clear endorsement or critique of either traditional or progressive models.
LGBTQ: N/R
There is not enough publicly available information for AI to assess this category for this movie.
Trans: N/A
Confidence: High
You Hurt My Feelings explores the complexities of long-term relationships, honesty, and self-worth through the experiences of a novelist and her therapist husband. The film's narrative focuses on their personal and professional lives, along with those of their friends and family, without featuring transsexual characters or themes.
Female Combat: N/R
The movie does not contain any action or adventure elements.
Gender Swap: No
Confidence: High
You Hurt My Feelings is an original film featuring new characters. It does not adapt existing source material or portray historical figures, therefore no characters established as one gender in prior canon or history are depicted as a different gender.
Race Swap: No
Confidence: High
The film features original characters without pre-existing canonical racial depictions. No characters were established as one race in prior source material and then portrayed as a different race in this film.
Viewer Rating Breakdown
User Ratings
6.5
6.3
Critic Ratings
9.4
8.0
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